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美國最受推崇及敬重的人際關係專家, 
百萬暢銷書《生氣的藝術》作者傾力新作! 

想要獲得最好懂、最有力量的人際關係大補帖,這本就是我讀過最棒的! 
--明尼蘇達大學家庭社會科學系教授 /威廉.J.達赫蒂博士

對道歉的精闢分析、流暢好讀的文筆、畫龍點睛的生活實例,加上心理治療師入微的觀察,提供讀者道歉的力量與價值。推薦給身陷痛苦中的你。
--哈維爾.漢瑞克斯博士與海倫.拉凱利.杭特博士 

這是寫給應該道歉與等待道歉的人,一本極棒的書。
--《有效的道歉》作者 /約翰.卡多

「很抱歉讓你有這種感覺。」「我從來沒想過要傷害妳。」「希望你現在就原諒我!」 
這些話聽起來很熟悉。如果你曾對人說過,你一定要來看這本書。 
因為,你可能正在或是已經破壞了一些曾經美好的關係! 

黛博拉錯過妹妹的婚禮,兩人關係陷入冰點,直到黛博拉上了這堂課…… 
蕾蒂的女兒遭受丈夫性侵,母女倆被怨恨籠罩,直到蕾蒂好好的道歉了…… 
餐廳經理因延遲出菜向顧客道歉,卻反而流失客源,為什麼? 
喬安收到曾傷害自己的朋友留言道歉而為難,直到她了解不接受道歉是合情合理的…… 
艾娜和山姆就像多數夫妻一樣,都堅持自己是對的不肯道歉,直到他們其中一人主動改變…… 

我們生命中有許多美好的關係,因為我們的不小心而遭到破壞,但事情永遠有挽回的餘地……只要你知道如何說「對不起」。 

研究「道歉之道」超過二十年的海瑞亞.勒納博士,深入人類內心,從不同的角度一窺道歉的力量、潛在的陷阱,與背後的種種祕密。她還用引人入勝的故事,說明道歉有多重要,以及為什麼我們常弄巧成拙,又該如何以勇敢道歉、真誠悔改,在棘手情境中敞開饒恕與療癒的大門。 

至於那些收到虛假或無心的道歉的人,或是理當獲得道歉卻苦等不到的傷心人或憤慨者,本書也教我們學習改變對話的調性,設法溝通。 

讓我們在可以道歉的時候、應該道歉的時候,做出最恰當的表達,修補生命中得之不易的各種美好關係!  

“If you want to know why Harriet Lerner is one of my great heroes, Why Won’t You Apologize? is the answer. This book is a game changer.” —Brené Brown, PhD, LMSW, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Rising Strong

“Harriet Lerner is one hell of a wise woman. She draws you in with deft and engaging prose, and then changes your life with her rigorous intelligence and her deeply human advice. I promise that you will never see ‘the apology’ in quite the same way.” —Esther Perel, MA, LMFT author of Mating in Captivity

Renowned psychologist and bestselling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language—I’m sorry—and offers a unique perspective on the challenge of healing broken connections and restoring trust.

Dr. Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies—and why some people won’t give them—for more than two decades. Now she offers compelling stories and solid theory that bring home how much the simple apology matters and what is required for healing when the hurt we’ve inflicted (or received) is far from simple. Readers will learn how to craft a deeply meaningful “I’m sorry” and avoid apologies that only deepen the original injury.

Why Won’t You Apologize? also addresses the compelling needs of the injured party—the one who has been hurt by someone who won’t apologize, tell the truth, or feel remorse. Lerner explains what drives both the non-apologizer and the over-apologizer, as well as why the people who do the worst things are the least able to own up. She helps the injured person resist pressure to forgive too easily and challenges the popular notion that forgiveness is the only path to peace of mind. With her trademark humor and wit, Lerner offers a joyful and sanity-saving guide to setting things right.







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誠品26碼 /2681516581009
ISBN 13 /9781501129612
ISBN 10 /1501129619
EAN /9781501129612
頁數208
尺寸21.3X14X2CM
裝訂平裝
級別
語言英文
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