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The Gift of Not Belonging: How Outsiders Thrive in a World of Joiners

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內容簡介 擁抱無歸屬的自由在孤獨中找到真正的自己你是否曾是那個從不想參加課後社團或去夏令營的孩子？你討厭派對，但熱愛與親密朋友一對一相處？你對團隊合作過敏，卻在獨自創作或工作時如魚得水？你是否總覺得難以融入？如果是這樣，你很可能是「Otrovert（另類外向者）」。Otrovert 並非天生的「參與者」。與內向者不同，他們既不害羞也不安靜，也不容易因一對一的社交感到疲憊。然而，在大型團體中，他們會感到不自在、疏離、甚至孤單。與那些被排擠或邊緣化的人不同，Otrovert 通常被接納，甚至頗受歡迎，卻總覺得自己無法真正屬於任何群體。精神科醫師拉米・卡明斯基（Rami Kaminski）在《找不到歸屬的幸福》（暫譯）中主張：與其說「歸屬」是擁有豐富且滿足人生的必要條件，不如說正好相反。當你對某個群體沒有特別的認同感，你的自我價值就不再取決於那個群體的認可。你可以在個別的人際關係中享受深刻連結，卻不必背負遵守群體規則或在意群體價值的義務。最美妙的是，除了活成你自己，你無法想像還有其他活法。《找不到歸屬的幸福》鼓勵 Otrovert 擁抱他們獨特的天賦，並提供知識與工具，幫助他們在講求群體的世界中找到屬於自己的生存之道。Were you the kid who never wanted to join after school clubs or go to sleepaway camp? Do you loathe parties but love spending time with close friends one-on-one? Are you allergic to teamwork but thrive creatively and professionally when working alone? Do you struggle to fit in? If so, you are likely an otrovert. Otroverts are not natural born joiners. Unlike introverts, they are not shy or quiet, and do not quickly tire from one-on-one socializing. Yet in large groups they feel uncomfortable, alienated, and alone.Unlike those who have been excluded or marginalized, otroverts are embraced and often quite popular. Yet they never feel like they truly belong.In a culture that puts a premium on joining, many otroverts have gone through life feeling misunderstood. But, contrary to what we have been taught, argues psychiatrist Rami Kaminski, belonging is not a requirement for living a rich, rewarding life. Quite the opposite. When you have no affinity for a particular group, your self-worth is not conditioned on the group’s approval. You can enjoy deep connection in individual relationships without the obligation to follow the rules the group follows, or care about what the group cares about. Best of all, you know of no other way to think or be, other than for yourself.The Gift of Not Belonging urges otroverts to embrace their unique gifts, and equips them with the knowledge and tools to thrive in a communal world.

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作者介紹 Dr. Rami Kaminski, MD is an American pioneering psychiatrist with over four decades of experience treating patients across the spectrum, from world leaders to individuals withpersistent psychiatric conditions. His expertise includes mood disorders, obsessive compulsive disorders, anxiety, addiction disorders, and neurocognitive conditions. With a particular focus on integrative psychiatric approaches, Dr. Kaminski’s method uniquely bridges humanistic values with innovative therapeutic concepts.His outstanding contributions to psychiatry have earned numerous accolades, including the Exemplary Psychiatrist Award from the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill and the Physicianof the Year Award from New York City’s Mount Sinai Hospital. In 2023, Dr. Kaminski founded the Otherness Institute with a mission to explain and decipher the unique phenomenon of otherness and otroversion.

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最佳賣點 : The Gift of Not Belonging urges otroverts to embrace their unique gifts, and equips them with the knowledge and tools to thrive in a communal world.