The Non-Monogamy Playbook: Exploring Polyamory and Open Relationships with Confidence

「在這個身份、需求和渴望不斷變化的世界裡，Ruby 就像耳邊安撫人心的低語。她的文字鼓勵我們勇敢探索，活出精彩人生，擁抱那渴望被釋放、渴求被看見的性心理。這是一種不同的愛的方式，而這正是一份難得的禮物。」
— Anna Richardson，主持人暨記者

「Ruby 的聲音是對過時性與關係觀念的最佳解藥。溫暖、貼近生活且資訊豐富到極致，Ruby 是任何想更全面探索自我的人所需要的完美老師。事實上，她是我們都應得的性教育老師。」
— Megan Crabbe，@Bodyposipanda，暢銷書作者暨主持人

「一本友善、親切且極具個人色彩的非一夫一妻制關係指南。」
— Leanne Yau，Poly Philia @polyphiliablog

「絕佳的非一夫一妻制入門書。Ruby 以愉悅而充滿活力的寫作風格，結合豐富的研究和深刻的思考。全書充滿善意和細膩，無論你處於非一夫一妻制旅程的哪個階段，這本書都正合你所需。」
— Meg-John Barker，《Rewriting the Rules》和《How To Understand Your Relationships》作者

「Ruby 以謙和、富有同理心和幽默的方式探討非一夫一妻制的多個面向，讓你感覺像是從最好的朋友那裡學習。非一夫一妻制社群的專業術語和複雜細節可能讓人不知所措，而 Ruby 提供的資訊既有用又易懂。這是非一夫一妻制新手的絕佳起點，也是老手們重溫關鍵知識的好書。」
— Lola Phoenix，《Non-Monogamy Help》作者

「一本必要、令人興奮且引人入勝的書。我反覆驚呼『哦，現在我懂了！』這本書沒有批判，而是牽著你的手，帶你走過那些或許不理解的領域。教育性、幽默、美麗且充滿解放感。我相信這本書將釋放許多甚至不知道自己被困住的人。我剛放下它，就想再讀一遍。每個人都應該讀這本書。」
— Sofie Hagen，喜劇演員、作家、播客主持人

「Ruby 總能將艱深複雜的主題變得不再可怕。非一夫一妻制或許是個困難的領域，但這本書不僅提供了導航地圖，Ruby 的文字更提醒我們，迷失在這片風景中也可以性感、有趣且豐富人生。」
— Tom Rasmussen，音樂人、作家、變裝表演者

Review
In a world where our identity, needs and desires are constantly shifting and evolving, Ruby is a reassuring whisper in our ear. Her words encourage us to be bold, to explore, to live a life fantastic. To embrace a sexual psyche that yearns to be unleashed and demands to be seen. It’s a different way of loving, and it’s a rare gift indeed ― Anna Richardson, presenter and journalist

Ruby's voice is an essential antidote to the outdated scripts we were all given for sex and relationships. Warm, relatable, and informed AF, Ruby is the perfect teacher for anyone looking to explore themselves more fully. In fact, she's the sex ed teacher we all deserved. ― Megan Crabbe, Bodyposipanda, bestselling author and presenter

A friendly, approachable, and deeply personal guide to non-monogamous relationships. ― Leanne Yau, Poly Philia @polyphiliablog

An absolutely superb introduction to all things non-monogamous. Ruby balances a hugely enjoyable and exuberant writing style with a serious richness of research and depth of questioning. Kind and thoughtful throughout, this is just the book you need wherever you’re at on your own non-monogamy journey. ― Meg-John Barker, Author of Rewriting the Rules and How To Understand Your Relationships

Ruby broaches multiple aspects of non-monogamy in an unassuming, compassionate and humorous way, so it feels like you're learning about non-monogamy from your best friend. It's easy to become overwhelmed by jargon and complicated nuances in the non-monogamy community. Ruby gives you the information you need in the moment in a really useful and easily understandable way. It's a great start for people who are brand new to non-monogamy, and even a great refresher for those of us that could use a more caring and delightful voice. ― Lola Phoenix, Author of Non-Monogamy Help

What a necessary, exciting and thrilling book. I kept exclaiming 'oh now I get it!' This book doesn't judge, it just takes your hand and walks you through something you maybe didn't understand. Educational, funny, beautiful and freeing. I believe this book is going to free a lot of people, who might not even know they're stuck. I just put it down and I want to read it again. Everyone should read this. ― Sofie Hagen, comedian, author, podcaster

As ever Ruby takes the big, hard stuff and removes the fear from it. Non-monogamy can be tricky terrain, but this book not only gives us a map with which to navigate it, Ruby’s writing reminds us that it’s sexy, fun and enriching to get a little lost in the landscape along the way. ― Tom Rasmussen, musician, author and drag performer

Ruby Rare 是一位致力於讓人們更自信且包容地談論性議題的性教育家。她的工作深受其個人經歷的影響，包括她作為一名酷兒、非一夫一妻制及雙重文化背景者的身份。

Ruby 是一名合格的關係與性教育者，也是英國領先青少年性健康慈善機構 Brook 的大使。她曾在 Brook 工作五年，深入學校教授關係與性教育，並培訓其他性教育者及教師，課題涵蓋懷孕決策、色情片和包容性酷兒教育等主題。

Ruby Rare is a sex educator on a mission to get people talking more confidently and inclusively about sex. Her work is influenced by her experiences as a queer, non-monogamous, dual-heritage person. Ruby is a qualified relationship and sex educator. She is an ambassador for Brook, the UK's leading sexual health charity for young people, where she worked for five years going into schools, teaching Relationship and Sex Education, and training other sex educators and teachers about pregnancy decision-making, porn and inclusive queerness.